There’s a lot of misinformation regarding dating and attraction these days.
It’s actually quite sad that we’re taught so much BS by the media and Hollywood movies that men have to go online searching for the truth on how to attract women.
I’m going to dispel four popular myths that’s running rampant in society about what you need when attracting women and I’m going to prove you conclusively with justification why what you thought was true is actually a lie.
Myth # 1 – Women only are attracted to good looking men
This is one of the biggest lies I see spread by Hollywood movies. For some reason all the actors you see in movies who get hot babes are always pretty damn good looking. So it’s not surprising a lot of men start blaming their looks for their lack of success with women. I won’t hide the fact that looks DO work in your favour when you want to get with a girl. However, it only gets you in the door. For example, if you’re good looking, you can probably approach her and last for 10 seconds longer than the average guy. Anything longer than that you have to rely on your personality, charm and confidence.
You think I’m just saying this to make you feel better? Have a look at Lady Gaga’s long time boyfriend (ok she might not be 100% a woman, but she’s famous), he’s a total nobody and after receiving so much fame and success, she’s still with him. Why? Not because he’s handsome – he’s not, but rather he can make her feel emotions that no one else in the world can. Now THAT is powerful.
Myth #2 – Men and women think alike
Men and women only think alike when it comes to basic human needs, wants and desire. When it comes to understanding attraction this is totally different. Men are extremely visually oriented. That is why if you see a hot girl, you don’t really care about anything else. As long as she’s hot and she passes your looks test you’d probably have no problems sleeping with her – assuming she’s STD free. Now, for a woman, that’s not the case. A woman feels attraction through the emotions that you’re able to generate within her. Sure, seeing a good looking guy will excite her a little, but it’s not enough for her to drop her panties. You need to be able to make her experience a connection that she feels that is unique to only you. That is when she’s more likely to want to sleep with you. Ok, there are always exceptions, like sometimes you just meet a girl and she’s horny, but I’m not talking about exceptions. I’m talking in general, when it comes to dating and seduction men and women have different requirements.
Myth #3 – Being friends and being nice will win her over
I know a lot of guys seem to believe that after being nice to a girl for an extended period of time, she’ll suddenly realize that her choice of dates in the past were wrong and run into the arms of the men that were there for them during the entire time. I mean that’s what happens in the movies right? Unfortunately, this is not the case in real life. If you’re just “being friendly” chances are you’re going to end up being a “nice guy”. This is the kind of guy that they reach out to in times of need because they KNOW the guy will not take advantage of them and have sex with them. They KNOW it’s a SAFE option to turn to these guys because the guys will never even get close to first base. So if you’re being a nice guy and hoping that eventually she’s going to see what you’ve done for her. Then keep hoping. It’s not going to happen.
Myth #4 – Talking about sex is sleazy
If you really want to attract women sexually, then I think it’s safe to say that you have to end up talking about sex. I would advise the sooner you do it, the better. What I do not advise is talking about HAVING sex in a crude way. You need to flirt around the topic but then accuse her of bringing it up. That way you make it natural to talk about it because “hey you started talking about sex”. Don’t use vulgar words that you around guys like “my friends were telling me that they were fucking agirl last night and you should see her tits bouncing”. The words “fucking”, “my girl”, “tits” and “bouncing” are very graphical and direct. That’s talking about HAVING sex. That’s a no go zone.
Instead try this:
“My friends were telling me that they were… you know doing it with a girl and she was really enjoying the intimacy”.
That’s still not the best, because you’re STILL talking about having sex.
This is what you should do:
“what do you think about my friend mentioning to me about getting it on with his girlfriend”
If she responds anything positively or remotely sexual you say:
“wow, you’re so perverted it! Stop talking about sex you freak! You’re corrupting me”.
As you can see, if attracting women in reality differs totally from the popular myths passed to you through Hollywood movies. No wonder you’re not getting success with women that you deserve! Aren’t you glad that I’m here to help you out?
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