Dating is a great time for any relationship, as it is the time when you enjoy getting to know each other for better or worse. This is the reason why you should really make an effort to make each date interactive and a lot of fun. The dates will go really well if there is involvement from both sides. Planning a great date can be tough and stressful, but that is no excuse not to put some effort in! With a little imagination and creativity, coming up with great ideas for a date won’t be too difficult as you have a secret weapon – you have already read this article!
Don’t break the bank on the first date
The idea of keeping the first date fairly safe is one that a lot of people stick to. Without spending a huge amount of money, you can go and do a lot of things to have a good time. If you spend too much money it will put expectations on both of you that you don’t need. So make sure you keep it simple and have some fun! It does help if you are doing something active. That gives you the chance to talk to each other and keep the conversation going, and it is also something to talk about after the date has finished!
I advise doing these things for your date:
1. kayaking
2. rock climbing
3. indoor skating
The reason for this is, instead of worrying about what to say to each other, you’ll be preoccupied doing something that’s both physical and fun and will make your interactions much less stressful. For example, you can make fun of her if she doesn’t know how to skate and immediately act like your her close friend without being fake.
The second date
Now for ideas on your second date. Use your creative ideas to work out what to do without freaking your date out. A late night bike ride to get an ice cream, a day at the bowling alley, roller skating, or going to the water park can all be a lot of fun.
Once again you want to avoid environments where you just sit and do nothing. For example, don’t go to the movies. You won’t be able to talk to get to know her and both of you will be tired after the movie. Do something that allows you to casually get to know each other whilst having fun at the same time.
The third date
For your third date let’s focus on your date’s hobbies and interests. Remember, what you want to do is let her think and feel as if you’re perfectly suitable for each other. What better way to demonstrate this then take her to do the activities that she enjoys. If the two of you enjoy something that she likes, then she’ll be thinking in her mind that the two of you are a really good fit for each other.
Just make sure that YOU really want to be there and whatever she wants to do is within your comfort zone. You don’t want to accept her invitation to do bungee jumping when you know you have a heights phobia. You’re just going to end up shitting your pants acting like a total wimp and totally making her realize that you’re a pussy.
Get me?
Now as you can see, I have given you enough ideas to last you for three entire dates. Normally after three dates you should know by now if she’s the type of girl for you. However, what you should have been doing throughout the interaction is to be constantly flirting with her and making her feel sexually attracted to you so you do NOT end up in the friends zone.
I know you might be like “but what if I don’t like her yet?”. Well I would advise that you still flirt with her first. It’s better to have a girl like you more than you like her than having a girl that only sees you as a friend. Remember, once you get in the friends zone there is no way in hell that you’re going to get out of it. Ok, well maybe there are a FEW ways you can go about escaping the friends zone. Just like there are a few ways of escaping concentration camps. It’s possible, but why take the risk?
Make sure you do not do anything that comes across as being “just a friend” throughout your three dates. Make sure you constantly tease her and flirt with her. I mean this shouldn’t be too hard, I assume the girl is attractive and it’s not hard to flirt with good looking women right?
I cannot stress this point enough. Do not make yourself out as being too friendly, because if you do, then you’re not going on a date. You’re just “hanging out” with her.
That sucks.
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