Most guys have no idea how women think
What do I mean by this?
Sure men and women look the same from the outside, they all have similar basics needs wants and desires, but when it comes to attraction and seduction, then it’s a totally different story.
You really need to be good at understanding women in order to really attract them.
Otherwise you’ll just get her interested in you, maybe you’ll get past first base or two, but after that you’re not going to get anywhere.
I have made a list of key points you need to understand in order to know how the female mind works.
Women are better than you at conversation
Have you noticed that women actually talk a lot more than men? I mean, think back to high school, the pretty girls always had a topic to talk about and instead of playing sports and doing something fun, they’d rather just sit around in a circle and talk. Most of the time they would be gossiping and bitching about other girls, but at the end of the day they were still talking. So what does this mean? You’re going to have to learn how to polish up your talking skills. Does this sound impossibly hard to you? Well, that’s because you don’t know the secret to talking to women.
What you need to do is engage her in emotionally stimulating topics, something that will make her feel and experience a mood of excitement. Once you do this, all you need to do is sit back and relax and ask her related questions about that topic and she’ll never shut up. Make sure you actually LISTEN to what she says, because women tell you everything you need to know in order to seduce her. You just have to make sure you’re paying attention.
Ask her questions like:
1. do you believe in ghosts? tell me about the scariest situation you’ve been in.
2. what do you think amounts to cheating? Is it ok for a guy to kiss another girl if he’s got a girlfriend?
3. what did you want to do most as a child?
As you can see, all these questions revolve around topics that make an emotional impact when being asked. They are much more interesting then: what’s your favourite color?
They want to feel sexy yet classy
Have you ever noticed something really interesting? Attractive women love to flaunt the fact that they are sexy and hot. That’s why they dress up in short mini skirts and wear G strings and have other attire that leaves nothing left for the imagination. But when you go up to a girl who’s wearing a skirt shorter than your shirt and ask for sex, she’s going to be mortally offended and be like “I can’t believe he asked for sex!”.
This is puzzling isn’t it?
I mean do you get annoyed if you wear a clown suit and people come up to you thinking that you’re clown?
No!
So why do girls get pissed off when guys treat them like sex objects?
This is because of the way they look at themselves.
They want to FEEL sexy, but at the same time they want to be classy.
The reason for this is if you come across as being direct and straight about sex, you’re going to be seen as wanting her for one thing. That is sex.
So the way to get around this is to talk to attractive women, but instead of complimenting her about her looks or beauty, you want to make her feel as if she’s earned your attention through her personality – that why it’s classy and not just cheap.
So I advise you to give compliments to women about things RELATED to her looks but don’t compliment her looks directly.
Examples include:
1. I like the way you move
2. You have really nice style
3. there’s an aura around you that stands out
4. you seem to be able to make me smile
They want to feel secure
Women being the weaker sex that they are need a sense of comfort and security. If you understand their inherent need to want to be protected and come across as a strong man that’s able to be there whenever she needs him, then you my friend will get a lot of girls. Now, notice I said, they WANT TO BE protected, they do not NEED you. It’s important that you don’t give her the impression that you’re over bearing with your protection. Give her some space, but be there when she needs someone to turn to.
They want romance
Being romantic can be expressed in many ways. However, unlike men who seem to think of being romantic by giving her “BIG GIFTS” such as taking her on expensive dates, buying jewellery or wasting a lot of money on her, women care about whether or not you are thoughtful. This doesn’t mean that you have to spend a lot of money on her. In fact, all you need to do is make sure when she’s feeling cold you give her your jacket, when she’s got a cold you pass her a tissue, when she’s got her hands full you open the door for her. This to a woman is much more romantic and you get more bonus points for doing these things than giving her big presents.
Now that you know what it takes to understand women so that you can attract them properly, remember to take action. Don’t just read about this and treat it like entertainment because it’s not going to help you at all in real life. Good luck.
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