Are you telling yourself “I need a girlfriend”?
Chances are you have never experienced success with women in real life and you’re totally baffled at how the dating process works. That’s ok my friend, I have been there myself so I know where you’re coming from.
I have outlined the basic steps that you need to follow in order to be attractive enough to naturally meet and seduce women around you so they will become your girlfriend.
Find a passion you like that’s social
Most guys are lame around girls because they are boring. The reason they are boring is because they don’t spend time doing or learning about something that is really interesting an engaging. I mean, sure you and your mates might find the idea of spending an entire weekend playing World Of Warcraft to be a “fun and exciting time” but to most girls you’re just a bunch of geeks hanging out in cyberland because you have no social skills. That’s partly true. You probably do lack in social skills and this is a big factor stopping you from getting the girls you want. So the only way to get around this is to practice and improve the way you interact with other people. Find hobbies that force you to work in teams of mixed groups – you need to start interacting with women, so playing male dominated sports isn’t going to help you much. Some examples include:
2. volley ball
3. mixed tennis
Improve your public speaking
A lot of times men lack the ability to get a girlfriend because they have confidence issues. They are afraid to speak their mind even if they do they do not come across properly. That is why I encourage you to join a public speaking club, such as toast masters. The reason for this is you’ll be put in an environment where you’re going to be with a group of people (that often include women) that will be there to help you and support you. By building up your public speaking ability you’re going to be able to present your ideas and your personality in a way that people, not just women, find appealing.
Change your daily routine
If your routine does not allow you to meet girls naturally then it’s time to change it. I’m sure that many of you will make excuses like “I’m busy” or “I have work commitments”. So I’m simply asking you to spend a few hours each week going to different places or venues for normal activities. I mean, we ALL go shopping right? Why don’t you shop at another mall and then try to chat up the sales assistant? If you fail, that’s ok, that’s not the normal mall you go to anyway! So what do you have to lose? Nothing, but you have everything to gain.
Get female friends
Most guys who have never had a girlfriend or are not good at attracting women often have too many guy friends and not enough female buddies. You need to get used to the female energy and the vibe they bring into an interaction in order to understand how to play around with them. I’m not saying ditch your guy friends altogether, but I am saying that perhaps you need to hang out with more girls so that you can improve your social skills and interaction ability around them.
Try online dating
This is something I really recommend guys to do. Instead of wondering around on the streets or in a club scoping for targets and then scaring yourself to approach her, why don’t you go where hot girls actively advertise that they are single ready and willing to meet you? That’s what online dating is! All the girls here sign up with the understanding that they are going to be hit on by guys so they know what your intentions are. Plus, it’s much more efficient than hanging out in a club. You can message 30 different girls in one night just online – I’d like to see you starting a conversation with 30 girls in a club. One more thing. It’s so much cheaper than hitting up the clubs! All you need to do is pay for registration and perhaps a monthly fee. If you use Facebook to pickup girls, that’s going to be FREE!
Now if you’re still telling yourself “I need a girlfriend” then I would advise you to take action on the steps I mentioned. The least you can do is go online and try and message some girls. I bet you already use Facebook alot anyway, so why don’t you take the chance and send a few private messages to girls that you’ve seen around?
I’m not going to lie, you’re going to get rejected a lot during the learning phase, but it’s better to get rejected now than never being able to experience the fun of having a hot and sexy girlfriend by your side.
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