If you’re wondering how to make a girl like you for who you actually are, instead of what you look like or what kind of car you drive or how much cash you have… then listen up.
Yes, it’s possible to be able to get girls even if you’re fat, bald, short and ugly.
The reason for this is as long as you can make her feel a certain way she’ll be addicted to you like crack.
I mean, let’s face it, drugs don’t look very pretty, but the feeling that they give the user makes them DANGEROUS.
So in the same respect, I’m going to outline some guidelines for you to follow so you’ll become absolutely lethal around girls.
Be a master of questions
If you really want to engage a woman in an interesting conversation then you have to know what makes her mind tick. Women in general love to talk about three things:
1. love and relationships and herself
2. dreams and ambitions about herself
3. herself
As you can see, girls love to talk about themselves. That’s why in order to really make her attracted to you, you need to be a master of asking her questions about HER! The thing is that you need to come across in a way that doesn’t sound like you’re creepy and asking for too much personal information straight off. You’re going to turn her off and make her dislike you.
The trick is to use examples of other people to use as an excuse to bring the conversation about her, then it’s much more acceptable to talk about personal issues with her, because she’s done it already with other people involve.
How do you do this?
Simple.
Bring in an imaginary “friend”
You: “Hey, my friend and his girlfriend have a strange dynamic. He says it’s ok for her to go out and chat up other guys, but when he does it himself, she gets jealous. What’s up with that?”
Once she starts giving her opinion about that couple, simply say: “oh so you’re the type of girl to get jealous are you”
As you can see, you moved the conversation from your imaginary friend to be about her and her personal life. This transition was not only smooth but natural.
Be patient and subtle
I see a lot of guys try to rush things with girls that they could have succeeded with – had it not been for their lack of patience they would have been getting laid, instead of going home alone.
What do I mean by this?
You need to flirt and tease the girl so much that she starts hinting to you that it’s ok to escalate the interaction further. Instead of being like an average guy and pushing her for sex/her number/her anything, you should be the one that’s pushing her away from all these topics, but then at the same time hint that she should do it.
Here’s an example:
You: Oh cool, did you see that really cool coffee club that opened down the street? It’s got the features of an old historical building and looks so classy. The grand opening is invite only and I have tickets.
Her: wow, I love coffee shops with style, I want to have a look – she’s hinting she wants to go.
You: sorry, you’re too lame to get invited. They only offer tickets to guys who are cool – he’s pushing her away and telling her that she cannot go.
Her: I really like historical buildings too – she’s hinting more she wants to go.
You: maybe I should take my mum, her dinner was great last night – he’s making fun of her by implying that his mum would be more fun to be around.
Her: take me dammit!
Be a master tease
All women are attracted by men who are confident of themselves. The single best way to display that you’re confident and at the same time attract a girl is by teasing her. When you tease her, make her the center of your insults, whilst at the same time compliment yourself. If you’re able to do it in a way that is blatantly sarcastic it makes her smile and entertains her. Not only are you creating an atmosphere conducive to flirting, but this is how sexual tension is created.
Try this:
Her: Peggy looks so sexy in that dress.
You: Pity you wouldn’t look good in that. But I think if I wore it, Peggy would look like a whale compared to me.
As you can see, you’re saying something retarded and ridiculous. Your sarcasm is very obvious and she knows that you’re making fun of her. She’ll then start trying to defend herself and then you make fun of her even more.
If you want to know how to make a girl like you for who you are, then you have to be a guy that is able to demonstrate his personality in a sure and confident way. This not only attracts her to you, but makes you stand out from the other guys. That is what you want and that’s the way of the PUA.
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