Do you want to know what the best pick up lines are to open up a conversation with women?
Let me guess, you want to know how you can just approach any girl you see and get her number by uttering a magical line.
Well to tell you the truth, it’s not actually a single line.
A lot of people have the mistaken belief that as long as they can find the magical pickup line it’s going to solve all their problems when it comes to dating and attracting women.
But sorry dude, that’s NOT the case.
The best pickup line should be something that:
1. makes her relaxed and not want to run away
2. let her know that you’re a man of high value
3. let her know that you’re not going to stay there for very long
4. make her want to talk to you
5. make it easy for you to get her contact details.
There’s no way that you can hit all these points with a single line. So I’m going to teach you something better. It’s called the opinion opener. This in my opinion is the best pick up line.
Let me explain.
Are you scaring her away?
When you first approach a woman, make sure you don’t scare her away. A lot of the times, men come across as being too direct and scary and end up scaring the woman so she rejects him out of fear.
So what you need to do is assure that that you’re not a threat, because you’re not going to hang around for a long time.
How do you do this?
Just tell her!
You: Hey there, I have a quick question for you.. I have to go real soon but…
Since you are still a stranger, when you approach the woman, she will probably be thinking in n her mind “who is this guy?” and “will he stay here for a while?”
If you used the line I just taught you, then she’s going to feel a lot more safe.
Get her interested
The next step is to get her slightly interested in what you have to say.
The best way to get her interested is actually involve her in the discussion, so asking her something that would require her opinion is a good start.
The following are some great openers you can try:
- Tattoo opener – “Hey guys, what do you think of tattoos? Here’s the deal, I have an older sister who is 19 years old. My sister really wants to have a tattoo on her shoulder with her boyfriend’s name on it. Should she get it?” When the girls say “no” this is where you say” the more I convince her not to get a tattoo, the more she insists. How do I handle this situation and convince her that it is a mistake?”
- Herman opener – “hey my cousin is having a baby, and he’s thinking of calling her baby Herman. I think that’s so lame. Would you date a man named Herman?”
- Lost cell phone opener – Walk around and search the areas as if you are looking for something and then ask the girl if she has your mobile phone which you have lost just a minute ago. “Hey, have you seen a lost phone in this area? My pal was here just a few minutes ago and now he just lost his mobile phone. As far as he can remember, this is the last place where he had his phone.” The girls would try to help by also searching and find nothing. “Thanks for trying to help anyway, by the way, I’m new to this area, why don’t I add you helpful girls on Facebook so we can be friends”
As you can see all of these openers get her invested in the interaction and you would seem to have approached her not only because of her looks, and instead you want to know her more because of her personality.
Close the deal
Remember the goal here is to get her contact details so that you can call her or message her in the future. What I like to do is to get her opinion, then as a way of saying thanks add her on Facebook. This kind of close is a lot more successful because it’s lower risk to her. You have to reassure her at the same time that you’re not creepy and you won’t be a threat.
You: “ok, great, thanks for helping me out with your awesome female opinions. Let me add you on Facebook to get more girl advice, don’t worry if you don’t stalk me I won’t stalk you”.
So there you have it!
The best pick up lines to get her contact details does not consist of a single line, but instead is a series of sentences that lead her to feel as if she’s given something to the interaction and you’re just getting her contact details to say thanks. This is totally smooth and flies under her radar. So go out and try it today.Do you want a step by step VIDEO course where I show you how to meet, attract and seduce the women of your dreams? FOR FREE? No joke, this is not BS. Just sign up with your email address and let me send you the 6 part seduction series today. I promise I will never spam you. Let me show you seduction through videos by clicking here.